Sandra L. Feiler, age 72 of Menomonie, formerly of Elmwood, died Monday August 3, 2015 at the Mayo Clinic Health System- Red Cedar in Menomonie with her family by her side.

Sandra was born on March 27, 1943 in Menomonie, the daughter of Raymond and Virginia (Mulheron) Fesenmaier. She grew up in Elmwood and graduated from Elmwood Area Schools in 1960. Sandra attended UW-Eau Claire and majored in Vocal Music with a minor in Psychology. Sandra married Larry Feiler on June 19, 1965 at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Elmwood. She taught vocal music in the school districts of Spring Valley and Elmwood.  In 1992 Sandy and Larry moved to Menomonie where she has remained the rest of her life.

Sandra will always be remembered for the 11 years she spent directing and touring with the Pierce County Ecumenical Choir. She enjoyed sharing her talents with family and friends. The choir was very important to Sandra and her family and gave them much joy.

Sandra was a dedicated administrative assistant to Larry’s financial and investment business for 47 years.

Sandra is survived by her husband of 50 years; Larry, three children; William L. (Kayleen Schoeder) of River Falls, James D. of Menomonie and Mary Ann (Michael) Flanders of Minnetonka, MN. She is also survived by one granddaughter; Erin Rochelle Flanders.  Erin played a very special role in Sandra’s life. Sandra is also survived by her brother; Douglas (Mary) Fesenmaier of Menomonie, three sisters; Patricia (James) Speake of Florida, Barbara (Dennis) Parr of Eau Claire and Dianne (Lon) Herrick of Florida, several nieces, nephews, other relatives and friends.

Sandra is preceded in death by her parents.

Funeral Mass will be held 11:00 AM Tuesday, August 11, 2015 at St. Joseph Catholic Church in Menomonie. Rev. James Kurzynski will officiate. Burial will be in the church cemetery.

Visitation will be held from 4:00 to 8:00 PM Monday at the Rhiel Funeral Home in Menomonie and one hour prior to services at the church on Tuesday.

Condolences

1. Margie Collett August 28, 2015, at 11:29am

   I did not find out about Sandy's passing until after the funeral. I want to express what Sandy means to me and how she help to create the person I am today. She started me on this singing journey when I was five years old. Singing "Rudolf the Red Nosed Reindeer" at the Christmas Program. Later came the "Teddy Bear's Picnic" at the age of nine with members of the Pierce County Ecumenical Choir. At the age of 15 she coached me through my first time singing for a wedding. I believe I sang eight songs for the Asher-Schroeder Wedding. I also sang for I think "father Brickle's Jubilee", instead of "I did it my way", I sung, "I did it God's Way". Sandy then asked me to sing in the Pierce County Ecumenical Choir at the age of 16 and I sang the solo "Only Jesus Can Satisfy Your Soul". I was on my way to Menomonie; Sunday Aug 16th, and I just broke out singing that song and thought of Sandy. An hour later Bryce Blegen told me about Sandy's Passing. I don't believe in coincidences. I am still singing with the Ecumenical Choir, singing at weddings, funerals, and restaurants on occasion. Sandy started my journey and I am forever grateful for her presence in my life. I always tried to make her proud. You touched my life. I know she knew how I felt because I told her.

   With Sincere admiration and sympathy,
   Margie Collett

2. Susan Fesenmaier August 21, 2015, at 8:32am

   So sorry this is late but I did want you to know I have been thinking of all of you. Although her passing saddens me, it did bring back many great memories of the days on Farm Hill when our best friends were you. We were family!
   She will be missed forever.
   Love, Susan

3. PIERCE COUNTY ECUMENICAL CHOIR August 12, 2015, at 3:03pm

   We would like to express our condolences to the family and friends of Sandy.
   She was a very big part of our choir and we will miss her. The choir has a few members left that remember her as director. The choir has continued to serve the area churches with concerts every year during the Easter season. Please accept our prayers of sympathy and comfort in the approaching days, as your keep your memories of Sandy in your hearts.

   Pierce County Ecumenical Choir/sj

4. Jenifer Grambo August 12, 2015, at 7:32am

   Larry and family, I just came upon the obituary for Sandra and was saddened to see that she passed away. I'm also sorry that we missed the visitation. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Lance and Jenifer Grambo and family.

5. Jeanne O'Connell August 10, 2015, at 11:09am

   Sandra left an indelible mark on those students she had in her choral programs in Spring Valley. Always a lady.

6. Gail Smith Klanderman August 10, 2015, at 7:41am

   I am a Spring Valley graduate, class of 1967. Your mom & wife had a huge influence on me. She did wonders with our small high school choir! Her love of choral music just radiated from her and it was contagious! The favorite choral music I learned was being a member of the Aeolian Choir (a women's choir) Her special gift of directing & teaching made us sing our hearts out! Her music selections were awesome. You may have figured this out by now, but she was my favorite teacher! Her fashion style was also a positive influence on all of us girls. She always looked so perfect. My heart is sad for all of you for your loss. May you find peace and comfort as you celebrate the life she shared with each one of you thru the years. God's blessing to each of you.

7. Ken & Ardeth Claflin August 8, 2015, at 8:32am

   Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Sandy was a very special lady with many talents.Remembering all the good times we had in card club.

8. Rosemary Bates August 7, 2015, at 10:55am

   So very sad when I heard about Sandra. We were best of friends when we were on Morton Hill. Then drifted apart as we grew up. So glad I stopped last year and saw her at work. We had a good catch- up visit and since then have exchanged pictures and videos of her darling Erin. Rest in Peace dear Cousin and Friend. Deepest sympathy to her family.

9. Connie Shackle August 7, 2015, at 6:29am

   Mary Ann, I can't imagine what you are feeling, but I want to express my condolences to you and your family. May your beautiful memories sustain and bring comfort during this difficult time.

10. Dan and Linda Knapp August 6, 2015, at 5:32pm

    Larry , Bill and Feiler family
    Sandy was such a nice lady to know, we had good times visiting with you at our meetings, one our favorite couples, Our heart felt sympathy to your family

11. Bill and Anna Crownhart August 6, 2015, at 4:37pm

    Dear Larry and Family,
    Our sincere sympathy to all of you. Sandy was an inspiration to us while we sang on the Ecumenical Choir. She made it fun and the choir became a family. Those years we still cherish. Sandy was a wonderful organist and choir director at Sacred Heart for may years, too, sharing her musical talents. She was a special lady and a good friend.
    Bill and Anna Crownhart

12. Steve Flaten August 6, 2015, at 1:50pm

    Larry, I'm very sorry to learn of Sandra's passing. God bless you and your family.

13. Mark Kinney August 6, 2015, at 10:04am

    Sorry to hear of your loss of Sandra. My condolences.

14. Dale and Dawn Knutson August 6, 2015, at 9:48am

    We were so saddened to learn of Sandra's passing. Sandra and Larry were both great neighbors when we lived at the town houses behind the hospital. Our condolences are with you and your family. Keep all of the great memories in your heart.

15. Teri Buesing Swingle August 6, 2015, at 9:15am

    My heart felt condolences to the Feiler family.

    I was blessed to be a part of the Pierce County Ecumenical Choir for two years and will always treasure the experience and the way Sandy went out of her way to welcome me and make me feel a part of that wonderful family. She had such a love of music and the desire to share it with everyone she could. My thoughts and prayers go with you all.

    Teri Buesing Swingle

16. Dan & Jeanette Richardson August 6, 2015, at 8:49am

    To Larry & Family:
    Jeanette and I have remembered Sandra in our prayers especially since we briefly met in the Clinic waiting room a few months ago. Our faith teaches God lifts her to the heavens. May you, Larry, know you were a blessing to Sandra as she was a gift to you. Peace. Dan & Jeanette

17. Jay & Corrie Loe August 6, 2015, at 8:18am

    Our deepest sympathy to all of the Feiler family. God's blessings on all of you during this difficult time.

    Jay & Corrie Loe

18. Sarah Flanders August 6, 2015, at 7:32am

    I will deeply miss Sandra's presence in our family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all as you go through this difficult time.

19. Tom E and Sue Monson August 6, 2015, at 5:58am

    Larry and Family, it is so sad to loose one so loved as Sandra, she will be missed by all. Our thoughts and pryers are with you all.

20. SCH August 6, 2015, at 5:16am

    I am truly sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in God's promise found at Revelation 21:4, that soon,  "...He will wipe out every tear from our eyes and death will be no more..."

21. Beth (Breitinger)Weldon August 5, 2015, at 5:13pm

    Sandra was such a wonderful choir director. I was in her Aeolian choir in Spring Valley. It was such a joy and a favorite memory of my high school years.
    She was a classy lady and I thought the world of her.
    My sincere sympathy to her family.

22. Tom & Sharon Weber August 5, 2015, at 3:39pm

    Larry & Family
    It is always so difficult when we lose someone that brought so much sunshine to the lives of those whom she has touched. This fine Lady we will miss.

23. Bob and Mary Ann Richardson August 5, 2015, at 3:29pm

    Larry, Family, and Friends: We are very saddened by the news of Sandy's passing. We have fond memories of our occasional visits; always spirited,uplifting and highlighted with her smile. In businessSandy was always through, professional and helpful. We share our prayers and sorrows with each of you.

24. Rhynda Landt August 5, 2015, at 2:36pm

    I had Sandy Feiler as my choir director when she taught school in Spring Valley. She was a very talented person. I loved singing in her choir.

25. Susan Kirch-Thibado August 5, 2015, at 2:10pm

    Dear Larry, MaryAnn, Bill, and Jim...it is with great sorrow that I write you this note. Among these days of tears may you experience moments of smiles and laughter as you think of Sandy...a wonderful wife, loving mother, and super-duper grandma !! Love to you all .... Sue and Wayne

26. Clyde E. Smith August 5, 2015, at 1:18pm

    My Prayers and Thoughts to all of You. So Sorry to Hear of Sandra's Death. I have so Many Great Memories of all the Great Times We All Spent Together. All the Great Ideas and Help Sandra gave us at the Marion Christmas Teddy Bear Shows.
    Love and Prayers to All of You.

27. Paula Smith August 5, 2015, at 12:24pm

    Larry and Family so hard to belive that Sandy is gone I remembered when you would stop in united way togother when I was heiping Diane with things and you would talk to both of us she was a bright person and you were special as people will miss seeing her with you in church but she is up there watching you and I pray each day that it get better for you take care lots of sympathy to the family and you Paula Smith

28. Brent Schuler August 5, 2015, at 11:55am

    Thoughts and Prayers are being sent to the Feiler family.

29. Bruce and Pat Schmiling August 5, 2015, at 10:08am

    We are so sorry to hear of Sandy's passing . Our time with her in the Ecumenical choir was a very special time ! She made it special for all of us . She will surely be missed !!!

30. Rita DeLong August 5, 2015, at 7:51am

    My prayers go out to all of you. She was a very nice lady.

31. Brian Whitaker August 5, 2015, at 7:43am

    Maryann- I am sorry for your loss. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May God provide and surround you with comfort and healing during this time of need.

32. Andrea August 5, 2015, at 7:32am

    Feiler family,
    My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very difficult time. Sandra was a great lady.. I am honored to have gotten to know her. She is at peace and will always be in your heart.
    Love, Andrea Craig

33. Bob Afdahl August 5, 2015, at 4:59am

    Sandy was a very nice person. My sympathy to the family.

34. Margery Robole-Ginsbach August 5, 2015, at 12:14am

    Larry and Family, Such sad news to hear Sandra passed away. You are in my thoughts and prayers, my sympathy to all the family. She was a very lovely lady!

35. JILL AFDAHL BECHEL August 4, 2015, at 10:26pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. My love and prayers go out to the whole family during this very difficult time.

36. Linda McIntyre August 4, 2015, at 9:34pm

    Larry and family,

    Words can't express the sadness I feel at hearing about Sandra. She was such a warm, kind and caring person and I considered her a friend. Please accept our deepest sympathy. Allen & Linda McIntyre

37. Mary (Larson) Gorges August 4, 2015, at 9:07pm

    My deepest sympathy to Bill, Jim, MaryAnne & Larry. God's peace & comfort to you all during this difficult time.

38. Scott and Angie hunter August 4, 2015, at 8:16pm

    Deepest sympathy from Scott and Angie Hunter

39. Suzy Crownhart August 4, 2015, at 5:24pm

    Larry & Family, I was shocked and saddened to hear of Sandra's death. She was a wonderful and talented lady. Please accept my deepest sympathy.

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